Autism is a neurological and developmental disorder that affects how people interact and communicate with others. Although it can be diagnosed at any age, symptoms typically become noticeable from the age of two. Symptoms often appear differently in girls compared to boys, but due to the lack of research on girls, they often get unrecognised. It has been estimated that boys are 4 times more likely to be identified as being autistic. This blog will outline some of the common signs of autism in girls, offering guidance to help you better understand and support your daughter.
Difficulty in Socialising
While girls with autism may engage in conversations, they often restrict their communication to topics of personal interest and may not show much interest in what others have to say. This can make it challenging for them to maintain friendships. Additionally, they might struggle to interpret body language, facial expressions, or tone of voice, leading them to imitate these social cues in an attempt to fit in. This behaviour may be perceived as awkward or frustrating by peers, potentially impacting their ability to form lasting friendships.
Special interests
Girls with autism often develop intense interests, similar to boys, but their interests may appear more socially acceptable—such as books, animals, or art. Because these interests align with typical childhood hobbies, they are often overlooked as a sign of autism. However, the intensity and focus on these interests can be a key indicator.
Masking Traits
Many autistic girls learn to “mask” or hide their challenges by mimicking the behaviour of their peers, rehearsing social situations, or scripting conversations in advance. While this can help them appear more socially adept, it often comes at a significant cost. The effort required to maintain this front can lead to exhaustion, anxiety, or emotional meltdowns when they are alone or in a safe environment.
Sensory Overload
Autistic girls may be hypersensitive to sensory inputs such as loud noises, bright lights, strong smells, or specific textures. These stimuli can be overwhelming, triggering intense emotional responses and a strong desire to leave the situation.
Mental Health Issues
It is common for girls to experience mental health conditions such as anxiety and depression. These issues often stem from the challenges of social interactions, sensory sensitivities, and the constant effort of masking their true selves to fit in.
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References
https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/autism-spectrum-disorders-asd#:~:text=Autism%20spectrum%20disorder%20(ASD)%20is,first%202%20years%20of%20life
https://www.verywellhealth.com/signs-of-autism-in-girls-260304
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/325574
https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/what-is-autism/autistic-women-and-girls
https://www.autismawareness.com.au/understanding-autism/women-girls
https://www.cdc.gov/autism/addm-network/?CDC_AAref_Val=https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/autism/addm.html